Isidor Straus and his wife Ida were prominent passengers aboard the Titanic. Isidor Straus was born in Germany in 1845 and immigrated to the United States with his family—when he was a child. He eventually became a successful businessman and co-owner of Macy’s department store in New York City, along with his brother Nathan.
Isidor and Ida were well-known figures in New York society and known for their philanthropy and civic engagement. Despite their wealth and status, they were known for their humility and kindness.
During the Titanic’s fateful voyage in April 1912, Isidor and Ida chose to stay together rather than separate during the evacuation. When offered a place on a lifeboat, Isidor reportedly refused to leave without his wife, saying, “I will not go before the other men.” Ida also refused to board a lifeboat without her husband.
As the ship sank, Isidor and Ida were last seen standing together on the deck, holding each other. Their devotion to each other in the face of disaster has become legendary, symbolizing the strength of their love and commitment.
Their tragic deaths aboard the Titanic left a profound impact on American society, and their story has been immortalized in books, films, and memorials dedicated to the Titanic disaster.
Isidor Straus was born to a Jewish family in Otterberg, Bavaria, Germany on February 6, 1845. Immigrating to the United States as a boy, Isidor grew up to briefly serve in Congress and became co-owner (along with his brother, Nathan) of Macy’s department store.
Ida Blun was also born on February 6 in Germany, though four years later than her husband when her Jewish family came to America. There she met and married Isidor in 1871. The couple had seven children and were remembered as especially affectionate throughout their marriage—writing letters to each other every day when Isidor was away on congressional duties or business. This love and affection would be displayed right up until the end.
The Straus‘s boarded in Southampton and checked into first-class cabins C-55-57 which cost them £221 (approximately £32,300 in today’s money). Isidor’s manservant John Farthing and Ida’s newly employed maid, Ellen Bird were travelling with them.
On the night of April 14, 1912, the ship hit an iceberg and quickly began to sink. And while the popular movie might have us believe that the elderly couple died holding tightly to each other in their bed, the truth is much more moving.
Following the collision with the iceberg, Mrs. Straus almost entered Lifeboat 8. Jessica, their great-great-granddaughter explained “They were in their 60s, had been together for many, many years, and had several children together. Ida would not go without her husband. Isidor was offered a place on another lifeboat but he chose not to go without her. He begged her to get on and she turned and said to him, ‘Isidor we have been together for all these years. Where you go, I go.'”
Ida Straus removed her fur coat and handed it to her maid, Ellen Bird. Ellen entered Lifeboat 8 under the persuasion of the Straus’s and was saved.
The couple were last seen sitting together on a pair of deck chairs arm in arm.
The body of Isidor Straus was recovered by the Mackay-Bennett and was buried at Woodlawn Cemetery, Bronx, New York. Mrs. Straus’s body was never recovered. John Farthing also perished.
Sources
https://www.titanicbelfast.com/history-of-titanic/titanic-stories/a-love-story-for-the-ages
https://www.washingtonpost.com/history/2023/06/23/titanic-oceangate-ida-isidor-straus
https://www.ifcj.org/news/stand-for-israel-blog/a-titanic-love-story
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